Brittany Nicole Ward
1990 - 2025
Brittany Nicole Ward, a radiant soul born on September 2, 1990, in Winston Salem, North Carolina, departed from this earthly realm far too soon on April 21, 2025, at the young age of 34. Brittany was a colorful tapestry known for her vivacious personality and deep love for her three beautiful children and the little creatures of this world. She held her Christian beliefs close to her heart.
To know Brittany was to love her. She was unapologetically herself, a “Take Me As I Am” whirlwind bursting into rooms with a personality louder than a brass band in a library! She was a creative force, quirky and hilariously pun-tastic with her wordplay wizardry that never failed to bring laughter to those around her. A lover of all creatures great and small, from the cuddly to the creepy-crawly, she found beauty where others may shriek, reflecting her gentle heart and playful spirit. Brittany had an innate ability to connect with people on a deep level, making everyone feel seen and valued. Her empathy knew no bounds, and she was always the first to offer a listening ear or a comforting hug when someone needed it most.
She was predeceased by her grandparents Joyce and Charlie Alderson, Ruth Swain and Grover Ward, who undoubtedly welcomed her with open arms in the hereafter. She is survived by her three loving babies Joshua, LillyAnn, and Atlas, her parents Deanie Foster (Donnie) and Joey Ward (Dana), her older sisters Gracie Alderson “Sissy” and Amanda Ward, 4 nieces and 2 nephews and a very special Aunt Melody whom she shared a close bond with. She leaves many other family members and childhood friends who adored her!
In keeping of Brittany’s vibrant spirit, the family will hold a private celebration of life to pay tribute to her memory. As we remember Brittany, we hold her children, Joshie, LillyBug, and Atlas Max, close in our thoughts and prayers. She is deeply missed by all who knew and cherished her.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests memorial contributions in Brittany’s memory be directed to AARF, an animal rescue. Donations can be made through their website at www.AARFWS.org or at their location at 302 Thurston Street, Winston Salem, NC 27103.
Daniel,
My heart aches for you as you and the kids are going thru this season. I can’t even imagine getting that information about a child of mine. I was Blessed when you personally called us the other day to tell us she had passed. I know with your faith that you will get thru this. We love you andwe have memories of keeping Josh in the nursery.
She a beautiful niece who is in heaven now
Dear mama, in everything I do, I see you and think of you. Every step I take, every breath I breathe, every work I speak, it’s all because of you. I went to go see Star Wars: Revenge of the Sith today, and I know you would have loved to watch it with me, you always loved taking me to the movies. Even though you aren’t here physically, I know you’re right beside me at all times, protecting me and Lilly and Atlas. You’re departure from this planet is rough for me, but as you always told me to do, I didn’t let it drag me down, I kept pushing through, and I’m gonna keep pushing through until the day I can’t push anymore, and that day is when we will be reunited after all. I will always love you forever and ever. Sincerely, you’re beloved son, Joshie. “Don’t break anyone’s heart, they only have one.” (A quote by Ichigo Kurosaki, a character from Bleach, one of my mom’s favorite shows.)
My Dear Friend Deanie,
I have no words that can fully express the sorrow I feel for you. I was heartbroken to hear about Brittany’s passing. She was so beautiful, so talented, and she was always so sweet to me. I will always remember her smile. .
I cannot imagine the pain you’re facing. Please know that I am here for you in any way you need. I am holding you, Josh, Lilly, Atlas, Gracie, and all of Brittany’s loved ones in my heart and prayers.
I love you very much, and Jesus loves you even more. ✝️🙏🏽❤️
Yolanda
Safely Home
I am home in heaven, dear ones
Oh, so happy and so bright!
There is perfect joy and beauty
In this everlasting light.
All the pain and grief are over,
Every restless tossing passed;
I am now at peace forever,
Safely home in Heaven at last.
There is work still waiting for you,
So you must not idly stand;
Do it now, while life remaineth-
You shall rest in God’s own hand.
When that work is all completed,
He will gently call you Home;
Oh the rapture of that meeting,
Oh the joy to see you come!
– Anonymous –
Rip sweet Brittany I know your oldest sister Amanda and the rest of the family isn’t taking it very well but they know your safe in heaven now! Until we meet again sweet lady please tell my dad and everyone we said hey!!! ❤️ I promise to keep Amanda safe for you!!
my dear Brittany I only knew you for about 3 months we had several long tops and I feel like in those talks we accomplished a lot I do know you’re in a better place I also know honey that your children oh and a wonderful woman’s fan your mother your mother your mother has done so much towards your children to help them you know get through life but also know this that everything she does for your children Britney she’s doing it too because she loved you so much and your dad loved you Remember the last night before your trip to Mount Airy you slept on the couch and I slept on the recliner and we had the fireplace going so when I think of you I think of two women having a nice pajama party all the lights were out and the fireplace kept us warm and our conversations were sweet you help me in law and life will help you taught me a lot of things Britney I I wish she was here I still wish you were in Mount Airy cuz I think that would have been your. ticket but things don’t work out always the way we want there’s a lot going on here now and just know that people have not forgotten about you and and know that I want to thank you
Slhoney that you knocked on my door and came to me and asked if I could help would I help you and you I did try to very hard but I want you to also know that you help me by being in my home I’ve talked to your mom she’s very sweet and loves you dearly your dad apparently I haven’t talked to him but he must love you and your children but just remember this if I walk right and do right and your children your family will all be together again in heaven and it says we’ll know each other and I believe I’ll know you but I think before I get there you’re going to be able to see your grandpa that you talked about so much and your love for him and your grandmother and your family your life was very successful Bree very very successful what would we have if it hadn’t been for you we wouldn’t have three more beautiful children in this world I hope you read this and I can see it my heart is broken I’m in tears how I just remember how much I love you honey and I do love you Janet cook
./l
Hate to lose good people.
But
Hope she’s found peace.
It is not the end.
Praying for everybody and I hope everybody finds peace as well.
I was blessed to meet Bree only a short time but that short time she had the biggest heart and pure sweet soul. We just connected on a deep level so quick. I have pictures of her a week before this so if the family would please reach out to me my number is (336) 470-3794 and I’m Nicole a neighbor.
To the family,
I never had the honor of meeting Britney, but I wanted to extend my sympathy and ongoing prayers for peace for your family. It has been well over a year since Brittany passed, however, I am just now seeing her obituary. I searched it out on the Internet after reflecting on events that I experienced last year after being introduced to Joshua’s father, Bobby, in early March 2025.
By trade, I am a professional Social Worker with over 20 years of experience working with children and families. Although I was not employed in this capacity when I was introduced to Bobby, it was clear that he was in a very dire state and needed care, in order to sustain his own life. I also quickly learned that Bobby comes from a long and significant history of trauma, abuse and neglect. To me, it was very clear that Bobby’s history had played a major role in his then fragile state, as I watched him struggle daily with his substance use disorder requiring treatment for overdose frequently. So, partly out of duty and partly out of desire, I began my journey with Bobby to get him the medicated, assisted treatment which he so desperately needed, housed him, and set up his public benefits so that his basic needs were met. I knew that if I was successful that not only could it save his life but he could begin his focus on more important things, such as helping with the financial and emotional care of Joshua.
Joshua, I want to talk to you directly, with the permission of your amazing grandparents. No, I have not ever met you or known anything of you or your mother other than what your father has shared with me. I want to share that stuff with you and your family as I think it’s only fair and right for you to know. But First, I want to acknowledge that I’m a bystander from the outside looking in. I have not walked in your shoes nor your grandparents shoes. I have never lost a child or a parent. In many ways, I questioned whether I should even write this post as I have nothing but the utmost respect for you and your grandparents. I questioned whether this is the platform to tell you these things but unfortunately, I am not sure of another way to do it. In the end, I decided that this information is something you should know.
Your dad loved your mom. She had reached out to him a couple of times in the months leading up to her death, despite no communication for along time prior to that, according to him. He and I had just entered into a romantic relationship so he was slow to respond to her messages. I know because he showed me the messages. He regretted this after finding out about her passing on April 22. You should know that he held a candlelight vigil here, in my home, for your mother all night long on April 22. I watched him as he reflected on her memory and honored her. It was very touching. It affected him in a profound way. He spoke highly of your mother and of her love for you. He blamed himself for many of the struggles she faced later on in life. He shared deep regrets and made no excuses. He expressed gratitude for your grandparents and their care of you.
So why do I say all this? It is not to defend your dad, but to give him a voice. A voice that he has not had while in the justice system and a voice that was lowered simply from his own history and experiences with abandonment and neglect. As a social worker, I have seen many negligent and abusive parents, very often due to their disease of addiction or from their owngenerational trauma. Your father has had the odds stacked against him from the beginning Joshua. However, don’t misunderstand….in no way do I excuse his absence, however I simply hope you can better understand it with this information.
I feel that it’s important that you know he loved your mom and he loves you. He asked me on many occasions to reach out to you on his behalf to tell you how much he loved you. He asked me to do this after your mother died, after your paternal grandmother died and every time I’ve talked to him since. I tried last summer to reach you by sending a message through Facebook, but I’m not sure that it was even you that I sent the message to as we have not met, lol
I acknowledge he has not been there for you. I acknowledge he has not fulfilled his responsibilities as a parent. He has made poor choices and he will suffer consequences from them for the rest of his life. And you’re probably thinking who the hell am I to even get on here and comment about your mom or your dad? Well, as a parent myself, if I were in your mother or father shoes, I would want my children to know they were loved. Your father frequently talked about the day he wants to make it right with you. You matter to him and you always will Josh. I frequently pray that he is able to make good on his intentions to be in your life. I pray that he is able to re-enter society upon his release, as a new man, a sober man, the man that I know he wants to be. Bobby loves you. It’s probably best to wait until you’re older and more mature to make a decision about whether you want to allow him in your life or not. No one can blame you if you don’t. That choice will be yours after 18. I want you to have all the information necessary to make an informed decision.
Mr. and Mrs. Ward,
Please accept my sincerest condolences and prayers for peace and comfort in your lives regarding the loss of your child . Thank you for what you’ve done for these three children. You should be proud and know that you are doing God‘s work and hopefully stopping another generation from unnecessary abuse and trauma.
With respect,
Julie
Correction, not Mr. and Mrs Ward but Mr. and Mrs. Foster, my apologies
Julie
In my opinion you commit an error. I suggest it to discuss. Write to me in PM, we will communicate.
__________