James H. Connor
1960 - 2024
Jim Connor, age 64, passed away peacefully on the 30th of Nov 2024, surrounded by
his loving family. He was a true family man, deeply devoted to his wife of 37 years,
Rhonda, and their two daughters, Katrina and Rebecca. He was a man of immense
warmth, character, and passion, he leaves behind a legacy of love, creativity, and joy
that will forever live in the hearts of his family, friends, and all who had the pleasure of
knowing him.
Known for his boisterous and infectious laughter, he could light up any room with his
presence. Whether telling stories, sharing a meal, playing a game, or simply enjoying
time with loved ones, he brought an energy that was impossible to ignore.
Jim was a man of diverse passions. A lover of all things spicy, he could often be found
experimenting with fiery new recipes, adding just the right amount of heat to every dish
or scooping out the locals’ favorite small dinner. His joy for life extended to his love for
animals and the outdoors, where he found peace while fishing or simply enjoying the
view from his front porch.
An avid collector and craftsman, he developed a deep fascination with opals and
gemstones, delighting in their rich colors and unique forms. His passion led him to
create beautiful, one-of-a-kind jewelry for his family and friends, each piece a testament
to his thoughtful consideration, skill, and the care he put into everything he made.
Among his many interests was a love for face jugs—quirky, handcrafted ceramic pieces
that captured his sense of humor and adoration for the history and stories they told.
Face jugs provided him a chance to appreciate art while also allowing him to do some
research, another of his favorite hobbies, both of the artist, the design, and the meaning
of each piece. Similar to his gemstones, each piece of his collection was studied and
endowed with meaning, respect, love, and a tale.
Above all, Jim was a man who adored his family and friends. He cherished the
moments spent with his loved ones, always ready to offer a kind word, a piece of
advice, or a handmade gift that reflected his deep affection for those around him. He
played many sports growing up and held onto his love of Baseball having visited 22 of
the 30 MLB baseball parks; most visits accompanied by family.
He worked hard in life, pursuing a Masters and having a career in pharmaceutical
research. His passion for science was passed down to his daughters as well as other
students as he assisted with Science Olympiad coaching. Eventually Jim and Rhonda
actually hosted and ran their own elementary Science Olympiad competition where he
loved watching young inspired minds flourish.
Jim is survived by his wife Rhonda and daughters Katrina (Haden Capps) and Rebecca
(Charlie Mayse) as well as his mother Joyce Connor, Sister Sue (Rich) Freeman, and
brother Bill (Jan) Connor; niece Sheila Wasilewski (Mike, Claire, Benjamin and Bobby).
(He was predeceased by his father Harold Connor).
His memory will live on through his jewelry and countless lives he touched, and he will
be remembered for his laughter, generosity, and his ability to make everyone feel
special. Rest in peace, Jim. Your love will continue to brighten our lives forever.
We have been so honored to read all the kind thoughts friends have shared on
Facebook. We are not having a celebration of life at this time. In lieu of flowers, the
family asks that donations be made to the North Carolina Science Olympiad
organization, a cause that was close to his heart.
Rhonda and girls,
I am so sorry for your loss. I’m sorry I never got to meet Jim but have always enjoyed your pictures and his big smile. I will be praying for the family. 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Melissa
A beautiful tribute to a lovely man. I am truly sorry for your loss. Sending prayers for your family.
Rhonda and girls, I am so sorry for your loss. I always loved seeing your pictures on Facebook. You could see the love between you❤️ you have a lot of memories to cherish. Sending love and prayers.
Dear Rhonda, Katrina, Rebecca, and family,
I don’t even know how to begin. I’ve known Jim and all of you most of my life. There is a big hole in my heart with the loss of Jim, but yet a part of him will always stay. Our lively debates about scientific issues, our highly competitive board and card games always infiltrated with lots of laughter, long conversations solving all the problems of the world. And many hours together fishing and on the water, in any number of venues. His love of life, animals, sports, and of course, especially baseball were eclipsed only by his love of his family. I console myself when I remember the saying “grief is love at its loudest”. I miss you, Jim.