Oscar "Benny" Tadlock, Jr
1963 - 2025
Oscar “Benny” Tadlock, Jr., 61, of Kernersville, NC, passed away, Friday, April 25, 2025, at his home, surrounded by loved ones.
He was born on October 1, 1963, in Winston-Salem, Benny lived a life full of spirit, love and adventure.
Benny married the love of his life, Joyce Swaim, on May 3, 1987, and they had 2 beautiful girls, Ashley Wells (Chris) and Rachel Townsend (Matthew). One of the greatest joys of Benny’s life was enjoying his grandchildren, Ethan, Caden, Kayleigh, Adalynne, Ruby, and Oliver. He loved making them laugh with his funny sayings and tales of great adventures, (some true/some maybe not).
Some of the most treasured memories his daughters hold are of epic snow days, building snowmen and sledding until they couldn’t feel their toes. After a day of sledding, He would gather up his daughters and their friends and treat them all to CiCi’s Pizza.
Benny worked hard and played even harder. He owned his own construction company and had a passion for Harley Davidsons. When not working, he loved riding his bike through the NC mountains, and you never saw him without a Harley shirt or Harley hat on. He was a devoted fan of UNC basketball, never missing a game especially when they played Duke, (GO HEELS).
Benny and Joyce loved to visit antique stores and take spontaneous day trips. They would get to the top of their road and flip a coin to see which direction they would go in this time. It was always an adventure, and they never knew where the road would take them until they got there.
He also had a way of making everyday life unforgettable from teaching his daughters to appreciate great southern rock, shooting pool in his building with family and friends, and hosting his chicken stews that brought everyone together.
Benny always shared his unique wisdom with others, like classic one-liners. While watching his favorite Westerns, when others came into the room, he would quickly throw out, “If you’re going to talk, go to the other room.” And if he caught you fibbing? “You know how I know you’re lying? Your lips are moving.” That was Benny-straightforward, sharp and always unapologetically himself.
Oscar “Benny” Tadlock Jr. wasn’t just a husband, father, and grandfather- he was an original. A true badass with a heart of gold, who lived life loud, loved hard, and left a legacy of laughter, strength and unforgettable memories.
The family will hold a private celebration of Benny’s life.
I am so sorry to hear of your loss Joyce. Condolences to you and your family. I know what a strong man he was from our many conversation and his love for his family and grandchildren.
Joyce and family, I am so sorry to hear this news. Prayers for you all are being said. I pray the Lord gives you all strength during this time.
Joyce, wishing you Ashley & Rachel comfort in the days ahead! I’m so sorry for your loss of your beloved Benny. You and I have shared so many conversations about your life with Benny, the girls, their husbands, and those grandkids. Hold on to all the memories, especially the Hawaii trip of a lifetime you both shared before he became ill. Keeping you all close in my prayers now and as you move through the days ahead! You are strong.
I’m so sorry for your loss, Joyce. This has to be the most special obituary I have read. It made me smile and even laugh a little reading his life. It sounds of a truly celebrated life. I hope you find peace in the memories you hold tight and share boldly with others. Thoughtful prayers and tight hugs to you and your family.
Joyce and family, I send my sincere condolences to each of you. May the memories of life with Benny, be of some comfort over the passing of time. Praying for you all during this difficult time. Sending Hugs and Love your way!
Joyce and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers.
Joyce, I didn’t know Benny personally but after reading this tribute to him, I feel like I do now! What a gem of a human and an amazing legacy he leaves behind. Your work family loves your dearly & is here for you. Blessings.
Joyce and family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I only have a small sense of the strength Benny provided to you, but know you are hurting deeply. May you find serenity in this change, despite its difficulty. Please know that you have an extended family, full of love and prayer for you.
Sending prayers for you and your family during this difficult time. May you find comfort in the memories you shared and strength in the love that surrounds you.
So sorry and condolence.My sister just sent this info.I was blessed to have met Benny through my brother Troy.Benny was fine man.
Joyce, My deepest sympathy to you and your family. May you find peace and comfort in the love around you.
My deepest condolence for you, Joyce, the kids, grandkids, and friends. Thinking of you all and praying for you all.
I so sorry for your loss!! Please know you and your family are in my prayers!!
🕯RIP Benny🕯
During this incredibly difficult time, we are holding you and your family close in our hearts and prayers. May you find strength and comfort in each other, and may the cherished memories of your beloved husband Benny bring you solace and peace.
Joyce, my friend, I am so, so sorry to learn about Benny. You, the girls, and all the grandkids (especially Ethan who had a special bond with Benny) are in my thoughts as you go through this difficult time. Love and hugs for you.
Joyce and family, I’m sorry to hear the lose of Benny. You all are in my prayers.
Benny was a great husband father and neighbor. He loved his family so much and it showed. I remember what a proud papa he was picking up his babies from my house. My prayers are with you all. Love you!
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.